Tips on how to build a long Relationship

START OVER

When  couples  first  get  together,  everything  is  new  and exciting.  They overlook the little annoying things the other person does.  However, after time, the nagging starts, instead of hearing, “You look beautiful,” they might hear “Why are you wearing that shirt?”  If this sounds like your relationship, first, the two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed.  Identify the things each other did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place. 

Then together, make a commitment to start over.  The truth is, both of you will have to work on this.  It will not automatically be easy but it is possible.   Start by forgiving each other, forgetting  the  past,  and  then  start  over  with  the  flirtation. Focus only on the special things your mate does and relearn to put the unimportant things aside.  It will take some time so be patient.